India and Gods and Pollution

We spend so much time and money on praying to Gods - that don't exist and have never been seen by anyone - but - the one thing that IS real, DOES exist, gives us oxygen, air to breath, water to drink, soil to do agriculture, a land to live on - Mother Earth, we abuse and misuse. Which by the way is believed to have been built by the same God that we pray to... So isn't it more insulting to the Gods when we abuse this earth that we live in? I mean, no amount of prayers can make up for destroying the place he/she built with such passion. Right? What good is praying? And what good are festivals?

I'm not saying our culture is bad. Nor am I saying we shouldn't celebrate these traditions... I think it's great that people celebrate Ganpati with so much passion! But wouldn't it be amazing if we looked after our land with just as much passion? How many people plant trees? Or stop littering? Or recycle? What about looking after Earth? Isn't that equally important, if not more? I'd like to see riots over the betterment of our planet, and not over religion!

More than half the country is celebrating Ganpati Bappa right now. Bringing him home. Spending lakhs of rupees!! But if the same people were told to contribute towards fixing pot holes - they wouldn't have the money for it! It isn't "their problem". It's the conditioning of the government that is fucked up. The people running this country don't encourage it - and hence it becomes a door to door issue too.

Come on. I think as humans, we're losing the plot if religious rituals are more important than looking after nature. If your prayers towards your God destroy the oceans, or effect the earth in a negative way - what are you doing it for?

Today when I saw this man hole, I literally felt like we're creating these holes for ourselves. These, are our graves. Our children's graves. And if this holds no importance in our lives, then we may as well deserve it.

Think. Think. Use your mind. Question things!! Don't be a sheep. We already have Sheep's! 

 text by @salonichoujar #instagram

Inspiring Message

originally a repost.

To all the suicidal people out there, i wanted to share this beautiful message by an unknown boy, i found on internet. just read this.

“It has never been easy. When I was sixteen, I knew every potentially fatal thing in my house: Nail polish remover under the sink. Bottle of rubbing alcohol beside it. Hammer in the tool box. Forty foot bridge across the highway. Traffic outside my window. I thought about slamming my own head against a counter until I lost feeling. I thought about punching myself in the face until I stopped breathing. I thought about running out into the street at two a.m. and waiting until a car came. I never thought I’d make it to twenty-five. But I told myself to stay. Just for a little longer. Just to see. So I did. I sat silent amongst my friends, searching for a way to speak. I stopped leaving my house. I swapped sleeping for staying up all night, staring at my bedroom walls. When someone came into my room to talk to me, I started crying. But I stayed. Because I thought, if I plan on dying in a few years anyway, what do I have to lose? And some days I didn’t feel like I was being swallowed whole. Some days I sat by my pool and sang until the sun set. Some days I kissed somebody on their parent’s couch and didn’t feel lonely when I got to my own bed. Some days I listened to a really great song and felt understood, if only for a second. I stayed. And still I thought about bridges. And hammers to the head. And swallowing acetone to cleanse my insides. But slowly slowly slowly I began to understand that it was okay to cry, and shake, and feel anything but okay. I realized that there would still be days that my fist would rise to my cheek. And still, my face would sometimes resemble a bruised peach. But now I tear up my lists of potentially ways to die before I complete them. I replace prescription: pills, rubbing alcohol, & razors with memories of the good days. Of holding your hand through the entire state of Oregon. Of running half-naked down a snowy street three New Year’s ago. Of riding go-carts in the Canadian wilderness. Of smoking cigarettes on the beach in San Francisco with someone I met six months ago. If I had left, we would not know each other. If you feel the same way, stay. For the good days. & the sunsets. And the people out there who understand.” 

 cause the good days will come. :)

Why do We Value Certain Persons or Things?

Yesterday i was thinking about a friend who i value so much, but she doesn't value me as much as i do! Which made me ponder over why do we value certain things and persons, where as other things and persons have little or no value at all! Why? Why is it some people value money while some people don't, why is it that some rich people do not value food where as the poor do! And this same concept of Value lies in all aspects with almost a same reason!  Can you guess what is that? Lets see if great minds think alike!

Deeply pondering over in grief that she doesn't value me, i realized that we value persons and things that are hard to get! Cause if that person or thing was very cheap and easy to get that thing won't just matter to us. Its the same reason why people value sex from decent girls more than they value sex from a prostitute, its the same reason why poor value even a little amount of food they get because they know they have to work fucking hard to feed themselves. I value her so much in my life cause she is so hard to get, she is way too good for me, we can never happen! I am behind her 24/7 and I'm easily accessible to her whenever she wants or i'll do whatever she wants just at her command! I am easy to get, i am almost of very little or of no value to her! I am easy and she doesn't even wanna meet me and i was dying to meet her.. I am of No Value for Her.!

And who has fun in easy things, human mind was designed to push the limits, it was designed to have fun, it was designed to be greedy, It was designed to constantly be active., so if you just get that thing so easy, it'll gradually loose your attention and that thing or person would be left without any value, and you'll just move on. And that's why playing hard to get almost works every time, except when you can't just play in front of that person and completely surrender, you just want that person, thing, or goal in life so bad that you will be ready to loose your value, ready to lose your pride, more your ego, Your everything.


Never lose HOPE. Keep trying cause hope only means,


H: Hold
O: On
P: Pain
E: Ends

But also Know when to stop trying. Make sure you that thing doesn't just destroy you! Take Care.!

Expectations

expectation

ɛkspɛkˈteɪʃ(ə)n/

noun

1. 
   
2. 1.

   a strong belief that something will happen or be the case.

Aren't expectations what Drives out Major Emotions of SADNESS & ANGER? Like the Only Reason you get sad is when it didn't happen according to what you expected, and if that sadness has a mix of Ego and your Pride or Some Personal Feelings Attached, that sadness is easily Redirected to Whats Known as ANGER.

Now,

Do you Know why Most of the time you get happy? Logically why? Cause Something Unexpected happened which is pleasing to you. Obviously you'd have had known the possible outcomes but your Mind had an more stronger point of view on the Outcomes which may be not so pleasuring to you. Like if you Love a Girl or A Boy, you have no idea whats gonna happen if you are to go and tell her or him your feelings, Mostly you've underestimated yourself and you have expected to get a negative Reply and Your mind is Heavier on this expectation cause Expecting things is what Human Mind does, So what happens when He or she says Yes? Unexpected Right? Your Happiness knows no bounds right? :) So Not expecting anything out of anyone is the Key to Happiness! Eureka ♥

Although its easier said than done, you can't just stop your expectations with a snap! You need to remind yourself with everything about not expecting anything from anything or anyone! Keep on constantly Reminder yourself!

Cause it fucking hurts if things don't happen as expected! Feel the unexpected :)

YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL FOR THEM

Ever experienced this? You don't start up a conversation on first hand with that person cause you are busy somewhere and that person never talks with you ever again! You know why? cause they were never really talking with you, they were just REPLYING YOU!

They were special to you, You were not for them, they never really cared or took even a little effort to just keep you in their lives. Honestly, you don't matter to them. Such people would only limit you, they hold you back, they let you mind play games, you won't be able to concentrate on anything but their thoughts like why won't that person ever reply me. Why would that person Never really start a Converstion. If you look at the History Between you two, it was always or most of the time it was just you to start up a Convo,  they never really gave a fuck. You stopped talking, they never even cared to inquire like "Are you alive"? 

Yes, you were never really SPECIAL :/ 

Types of Ignores

How do you feel when people ignore you! the feeling sucks right? it chokes me.. Basically there are two types of ignore

• Is when you are on purpose being ignored! they notice you, they read your messages, they see your pictures, they see your status, but they choose not to reply back to you or even show that they have received your message. Possibly cause they don't want you any more or they have better people to talk to or they just don't Have time for you.

I read it somewhere, "There is a difference between people who free their time to talk to you and the people who talk to you in their free time" .

• Is When you don't have a special position in their life. They probably don't even know they are ignoring you, they are busy doing some work and when they come back and see your posts just with the rest others of posts, and they generally ignore it just like the way they ignore the mass. You probably don't mean them anything. They won't take special efforts to remember like "Yeah, i have this guy/girl. let me check his posts/messages." This won't be happening. They probably aren't even noticing your posts! they don't feel for you the same way you do for them!

But the worse part is, sometimes you don't even know Which type of Ignore you are getting, are they ignoring you purposely or they just aren't noticing you, *this thought could kill you*

Alone vs Lonely

A so-so friend of mine, she once told me there exists a huge fucking difference between being alone and being lonely!
Alone is when "you've got plenty of people around you, plenty of people willing to be your friend, plenty of people willing to love you, still you choose Not to be with them, then you're ALONE, by your own choice."
Wherein, Loneliness is when, you really have no fucking choice, there are no people around you, no one wants to be your friend, no one wants to love you! If this is you, then my friend you're Lonely and that was never your choice! Like who wants to be lonely?
I always had this notion of being alone! As all great people in history have stayed alone, sacrificed their friends,love, family, everyone! And that was their fucking choice! They loved their work more than people, that's what made then great in the first place!  They were alone by choice! I always wanted to be alone, but fate never left me much of a choice! I was left fucking lonely...
The only one person i wish to talk to in this entire world of 7.3 billion humans, and she ignores me!
For me this is kinda like the whole World is Ignoring me....